hope and expectations

As we prepare for a family trip to Iowa for a wedding, I recall a discussion with some other fellas about hope and expectations...which tie into faith in the end. Because of the fall of man in the garden of Eden, we face the reality of poor expectations. We set ourselves up for disappointment, because our hearts seek fulfillment and we try to find it in the things of this world as well as the truth of the Gospel (rather than solely being united in God's will and desires).
With the chaos of family coming together from around the nation for this great occasion, we have 2 options: to approach the week trying to keep everything and everyone together (which may keep "peace", but also leads to inner frustration, gossip, pent up emotions) , or to seek joy and delight in our time together even if it means some disagreements and not always getting along. After all, as family, we are united by blood and have commitment to each other beyond just getting along...why not embrace each other in that truth and seek to bring God's kingdom to bear--even in part--by truly loving each other well.
Now things aren't a disaster...in fact, it is a beautiful season in the family. But my expectations affect the way I treat others and my overall countenance, my confidence exhibited in my faith. Real hope is built on expectations of God's kingdom to come, not the one on earth. Faith is the certainty of what we hope for, the conviction of what we cannot see. I trust that God will do miracles and show His mercy this week as He has for centuries and promises to continue to do in the future; For His glory, not mine.